ZAK GENTILE
FOREVER 21
Zak Gentile was a soul that brimmed with depth and tenderness, even when he couldn’t see the light he brought into the lives of those around him. Beneath the weight of his struggles was a heart that loved deeply, a young man who gave so much of himself to others, even as he searched for his own place in the world.
“My Zak struggled with mental illness. He never felt as though he fit in. He always thought he had to act out to be liked, when in fact, he had the biggest heart ever,” his mother shares. Her words carry the truth of who Zak was—a boy who believed he had to try too hard to be seen, when in reality, his presence was already enough to fill a room with warmth and love.
Zak loved to play sports, where his energy and determination shone. Music spoke to him in ways words couldn’t, becoming a refuge and a voice for emotions too big to carry alone. But it was his love for children that revealed the truest parts of his heart. As a mentor for kindergartners, he showed a kindness and patience that few possess, becoming a guiding light for those just beginning their journey.
“He was loved by so many but never felt he was worthy of love,” his family reflects, a heartbreaking reminder of the silent battles Zak fought. Even so, his life was a gift to those who knew him—a reminder of the beauty that exists in quiet moments, in acts of care, in the vulnerability of simply being human.
“I miss my lovely son so much!” his mother’s words hold an ache that speaks to the depth of their bond. Zak wasn’t just a son—he was a piece of her heart walking through the world, and his absence leaves a void no words could ever fill.
Zak’s story is one of love, struggle, and an unshakable impact on the lives he touched. He didn’t have to try to belong—he already did, in the hearts of his family, his friends, and the children he mentored. His legacy is a reminder to hold space for those we love, to remind them they are enough, and to cherish the light they bring, even if they cannot see it themselves.
April 4, 2002 – November 14, 2023
LeRoy, New York